Feeling Off? These Are the Early Signs of Perimenopause You Shouldn’t Ignore
- 7 days ago
- 2 min read
Have you been feeling "off" — not quite yourself, but not sure why?
Maybe your sleep is suddenly unreliable. Your energy crashes mid-afternoon. Or you're snapping at people over things that never used to bother you.
You’ve ruled out illness. Labs came back “normal.”But you still don’t feel like you.
These are often the early signs of perimenopause — and your body’s way of quietly asking for help.
Your Body Doesn’t Scream First — It Whispers
Hormonal shifts don’t usually announce themselves with flashing lights.
They begin with whispers — soft but persistent symptoms we’re taught to dismiss:
Trouble sleeping or waking up wired at 3 a.m.
Mood swings or unexpected irritability
Low libido or feeling disconnected from your body
Brain fog or forgetfulness
Cravings, bloating, or digestive changes
Fatigue that no amount of rest fixes
These aren't just random annoyances. They're your body's built-in alert system — especially in your 30s and 40s.
Why We Miss the Early Signs of Perimenopause
High-functioning women are often the most disconnected from their own warning signs — not because we don’t care, but because we’ve been trained to:
Dismiss our discomfort
Power through burnout
Downplay our needs
Trust “normal labs” over gut feelings
We’re told it’s just stress, aging, or being a mom or leader. But feeling off is not your baseline — it’s a signal.
That “Off” Feeling Is Your Body’s SOS
If something in you is whispering “This isn’t normal for me,” — listen.
Feeling off is often your first clue that your nervous system, hormones, and stress response are out of sync.
You are not crazy. You are not broken. You’re just being invited to pause.
How to Start Listening
Here’s how to begin honoring what your body is trying to say:
✍️ Journal this question: “What feels off — and when did it start?”
🛑 Notice your go-to habit: Do you push through or dismiss it?
🧠 Track symptoms: Fatigue, mood, sleep, cycles — patterns tell a story.
💬 Talk to someone who gets it (not someone who’ll gaslight you).
Listening is the first step to healing — and it starts by believing that your body isn’t broken. It’s brilliant. It’s talking to you. And it needs support.
This Is Exactly Why I Created JWaugh Wellness
I know how easy it is to overlook the early signs of perimenopause — because I did it too.
That’s why I built the PAUSE Framework:
To help high-achieving women like you understand your symptoms, break the habits hijacking your hormones, and reclaim control before things spiral.
This is your invitation to stop dismissing your body’s signals and start responding to them with compassion, curiosity, and power.
Ready to Understand What Your Body's Telling You?
Start by taking the Perimenopause Symptom Quiz — it’s quick, validating, and often the first moment women feel truly seen.
You deserve to feel like yourself again. And it starts with learning how to listen.
Comments